Yesterday was our second wedding anniversary. It's so hard to believe it's been two years. Sometimes it feels longer (not in a bad way!) and other times it seems just like yesterday. Steven truly is my prince charming. No one ever told me how difficult marriage really is. It's not all rainbows and cotton candy. In a marriage, you HAVE to work everything out because you are kinda stuck together. My transition from Cali to Missouri was difficult by myself let alone throwing someone else into the mix, but Steven was patient and understanding. He is sweet and thoughtful and just such a genuine person which is almost impossible to find nowadays. Sometimes I just stare at him remembering him back in high school and how we both had a crush on each other then. Sometimes I can't believe we are married and that I have such a great partner/best friend in my life.
In the past two years, life has thrown me a lot of curve balls and Steven has been by my side in some not so ideal situations. He's been by my side when I was upset and devastated with my aunt's breast cancer. He's also been by my side with all of my breast cysts. He's a trooper going to the doctor with me and I know he doesn't like them sticking me but having him just in the room cracking jokes and keeping my mind off of the doctor knocking on the door means so much to me. He supports me seriously with ANYTHING I want to do. Whatever makes me happy or whatever will make me feel better with taking drastic decisions about my breast health, he always puts me first. There are sooo many reasons why I'm truly, madly, deeply in love with him.
On another note, our anniversary falls on the day of Steven's friend Victor's wife's birthday, Crystal Rodriguez. Steven went to high school with Victor and when Steven and I started dating, Victor and Crystal would hang out with us. When we sent out wedding invitations, she told me that it would be her 21st birthday, but they would still come. Last June, they got married and while they were on their honeymoon, we had just got home to visit in Cali and we were going to hang out with them when they got back. Tragically, Crystal and Victor where in a horrible accident on their honeymoon and Crystal had passed away. I'll never forget that day and every year we have our anniversary, I will always think of Crystal. Happy Birthday Crystal.
Wednesday, April 4, 2012
Junebug
So my last post was about what kind of dog we wanted to get when we got settle back home, but things can change! 4 weeks ago we bought a Weimaraner!!! She was 12 weeks old when we bought her, and it was LOVE at first sight. I was super nervous, but not that we have her, there's no way I could live without her.
Here's a little info on June and how she's doing. Her name is June "Junebug" Garcia and she was born on December 12, 2011! She loves chewing on rawhides (rawhides are pacifiers for puppies). She loves eating grass, chasing leaves, picking up rocks and eating dandelions. She knows sit, down, high five, shake and up (to dance with me). She's great on walks and runs. We just need to work on not cutting right in front of you. She is a HUGE snuggle bug and loves to snuggle up on the couch next to you. She's already gained like 10 pounds in the last 4 weeks. She's about 30 pounds! She loooooves to eat and loves treats. Really good appetite. She's pretty much already potty trained too. She has accidents maybe once a week. She definitely is a "velcro dog." She follows me around everywhere. She follows me into the bathroom and stands up on the vanity and watches me wash my hands. She follows me all around the house doing chores. She's lost almost all of her milking teeth minus the canine which we are excited about. She's a little nippy, but she's gotten a lot better. She's such a sweetheart. We are sooo in love with her and she's in love with us. Can't wait to introduce her back home to all of our family and friends.
Here's a little info on June and how she's doing. Her name is June "Junebug" Garcia and she was born on December 12, 2011! She loves chewing on rawhides (rawhides are pacifiers for puppies). She loves eating grass, chasing leaves, picking up rocks and eating dandelions. She knows sit, down, high five, shake and up (to dance with me). She's great on walks and runs. We just need to work on not cutting right in front of you. She is a HUGE snuggle bug and loves to snuggle up on the couch next to you. She's already gained like 10 pounds in the last 4 weeks. She's about 30 pounds! She loooooves to eat and loves treats. Really good appetite. She's pretty much already potty trained too. She has accidents maybe once a week. She definitely is a "velcro dog." She follows me around everywhere. She follows me into the bathroom and stands up on the vanity and watches me wash my hands. She follows me all around the house doing chores. She's lost almost all of her milking teeth minus the canine which we are excited about. She's a little nippy, but she's gotten a lot better. She's such a sweetheart. We are sooo in love with her and she's in love with us. Can't wait to introduce her back home to all of our family and friends.
Friday, February 10, 2012
And A Puppy Makes Four!
Steven has been wanting a dog FOREVER! I told him not until we have a fence. We have a huge backyard but in Missouri they don't believe in fences which drives me CRAZY because all the other dogs use my yard. ick! Now that we got orders to Beale I've decided to get Steven a puppy once we get settled into a house! We are looking for a dog that can run on trails with Steven when he mountain bikes. That can run, walk, or ride with me. Be a great guard dog, great with kids (eventually), a total lovebug, and also get along with our cat! We've been reading up about the different breeds and also been watching all the dog shows on tv. These are the breeds we've been thinking about! Enjoy all the cute pics!
First is a Rhodesian Ridgeback! They are originally from Africa and were breed to protect hunters from lions! Totally B.A.! As you can tell in the second picture, their fur along their spine grows the opposite way! sooooo beautiful and cute!
Next is the Weimaraner. Steven and I are soooo in love with this dog. Weimie owners say that they always have to be next to you and touching you. A big snuggle bug, but still likes to be out and active! I love their grey coloring and their eyes are absolutely gorgeous! <3
A couple months ago a house on my way to base had a litter of Doberman Pinscher puppies that I fell in love with. Every time I drove by the house I slowed down so I could see them better! Steven has a riding buddy who lives in Blue Springs that has two. They are great guard dogs and good with kids! Not sure if I like the traditional brown and black or the red! We watching the AKC dog show and the Doberman's name was Fifi! haha thought that was funny!
First is a Rhodesian Ridgeback! They are originally from Africa and were breed to protect hunters from lions! Totally B.A.! As you can tell in the second picture, their fur along their spine grows the opposite way! sooooo beautiful and cute!
A couple months ago a house on my way to base had a litter of Doberman Pinscher puppies that I fell in love with. Every time I drove by the house I slowed down so I could see them better! Steven has a riding buddy who lives in Blue Springs that has two. They are great guard dogs and good with kids! Not sure if I like the traditional brown and black or the red! We watching the AKC dog show and the Doberman's name was Fifi! haha thought that was funny!
Gotta put a pic of them with their ears! hehe
Hope you enjoyed all of our puppy pics and picks! hehe Within the next year I'll be blogging about a new four legged addition to our family!
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Home Sweet Home Ideas!
Lately, I haven't had much to blog about other than I'm SOOOOOO excited that we are moving back in May. Work has been madness! We had to fire the other manager so I took on his hours. Super long days with the little time off cleaning up the house.
The weather here has been gorgeous and we have been taking advantage of it. The other day it was 65 so we drove to the city. Steven went mountain biking and I went shopping! I decided to go to Bed Bath and Beyond and I fell in LOVE with this bed set. It's not girly or flowery.
I'm thinking black, NO bench.
Table by itself. Can seat up to 8 people with the leaf!!!
Thinking of a chair like this, just not sure about the color.
I'd really like an entertainment center that we could store all of our movies and all of Steven's XBOX stuff, but also display some items. Steven has a ton of trophies for a lack of words from winning Airmen of the quarter. It would nice for them to be displayed so everyone can see instead of in our room going unnoticed!
The weather here has been gorgeous and we have been taking advantage of it. The other day it was 65 so we drove to the city. Steven went mountain biking and I went shopping! I decided to go to Bed Bath and Beyond and I fell in LOVE with this bed set. It's not girly or flowery.
This is the one I saw in the store. SOOO gorgeous. Way too pricey, but I love the color combinations!
This one is also really nice and better priced! Bed in a bag! I want a neutral color with an accent color that makes it pop!
Next I went to World Market which is conveniently located next door! I feel in love with this table and matching buffet!
Here's the buffet. Imagine it in black!
I'd really like an entertainment center that we could store all of our movies and all of Steven's XBOX stuff, but also display some items. Steven has a ton of trophies for a lack of words from winning Airmen of the quarter. It would nice for them to be displayed so everyone can see instead of in our room going unnoticed!
Well I hope you guys enjoyed my idea blog. I've been dreaming of this for a while and after that day of looking around in those two stores it's becoming real that we really are moving home! We don't know how long it will take for us to find a house, but when we do we are going to have a big housewarming/welcome home celebration! :) See you soon everyone!!!!
Saturday, December 31, 2011
My New Years Resolution
I think from the age of 16 and beyond, my New Years Resolution is year after year to lose weight and work out. This year, I've decided on something better for my mind.
I've met so many people in my life especially living out here who have been threw tragic events in their lives. Parents losing children to sickness and mental illness. It seriously amazes me that they get out of bed and still enjoy every single day. Everyone has had traumatic experiences or maybe just feels blue now and again. I want everyday to be a great day and to not get so flustered and upset with people trying to ruin my sunshine! I think living in Missouri has really depressed me for so many reasons. I feel like California will be my instant medicine. I will be close to family. Enjoying nice weather for once! House hunting and once we get settled getting Steven his puppy I promised!
2012, has already been a blessing with getting orders to come back home. I'm really to be and stay positive and go HOME! :D
Happy New Year everyone! We'll see you soon!
I've met so many people in my life especially living out here who have been threw tragic events in their lives. Parents losing children to sickness and mental illness. It seriously amazes me that they get out of bed and still enjoy every single day. Everyone has had traumatic experiences or maybe just feels blue now and again. I want everyday to be a great day and to not get so flustered and upset with people trying to ruin my sunshine! I think living in Missouri has really depressed me for so many reasons. I feel like California will be my instant medicine. I will be close to family. Enjoying nice weather for once! House hunting and once we get settled getting Steven his puppy I promised!
2012, has already been a blessing with getting orders to come back home. I'm really to be and stay positive and go HOME! :D
Happy New Year everyone! We'll see you soon!
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
My MANY reasons to be thankful
This year has had many ups and downs, but as the year is coming to an end it's been a great year with so many triumphs.
I'm thankful that my aunt is cancer free. The same day we found out we got orders to California, it was her last day of treatment! It made that day an even better day! 11-11-11! It's been really hard for me and I think about her everyday, but my aunt is truly amazing and strong! I can't wait to move back and spend more time with her!
I'm thankful that my boob issues are okay. I've had 4 cysts removed and might need more after the holidays. My last ultrasound showed some not so nice tissue that had formed that wasn't there 6 months ago, so in 6 months I will have another ultrasound to make sure it's behaving itself. I'm thankful that it's treatable for the most part and the procedures I have done are a piece of cake for the most part.
I'm thankful for my amazing husband. Steven won Airman of the Quarter for the whole base last month. I'm thankful and so proud of him and his job. I'm thankful for his protection. He gives me everything I want and need plus more, takes amazing care of me in my darkest day of the stomach flu, and loves me no matter what. He's the sweetest, funniest, most genuine person and I'm so thankful he's mine. I'm excited to start a new chapter in our lives together.
I'm thankful for my family. For my dad who I can call about anything medical and he can reassure me and tell me what to do to feel better. My mom just being there whenever I'm lonely and need to talk. I'm truly blessed with amazing parents. I can't wait to come home and live life how it used to be before I moved away.
I'm thankful to all my family and to Steven's family. I can't wait to come home and spend lots of time with everyone. I feel like I've missed out on so much in the past 2 years. I'm thankful for every little thing I have. After getting orders to California, I don't need or want anything else. Everyone's asking about Christmas gifts. I can't even think about Christmas. I'm just so excited to come home. That's all that I want and need. Everyday since finding out about our orders, my attitude has changed. I feel so much happier and positive. This Cali girl, is going home where she belongs and bringing her Cali hubby with her. Life couldn't be any sweeter.
Monday, October 10, 2011
OOOhhhh Missouri
I feel like I've lost my enthusiasm for my blog. My work schedule and Steven's work schedule have been completely opposite since summer started! My days off are his days to work and vise versa. We always seem to have at least ONE day off a week together, Mondays. We have some friends over for Monday night football and I get to cook and feed those hungry boys. Last night, we had lots of guys over for enchiladas. I made 30 enchiladas!!! Steven knows how time consuming they are and always helps.
We've been really excited about Steven's parents coming out at the end of the month. They will be here from the 21st until the 28th. Then my mom will be here from November 5th until the 11th. Busy busy busy! I get to take time off work for both which is much needed.
In previous blogs posted, Novermber 18th is the day we put in for a different base. Steven and I were very excited when we first found out, and now it the stress of everything is kind of sinking in. We don't want our families to get their hopes up that we MIGHT be coming back to California and we don't want to get our hopes up, which I know I've been feeling myself. In my perfect world, we would be transfered to Beale or Travis. I would be able to go to graduate school and we would be able to buy a house. I feel a huge responsibility for myself if we did not get any bases that we wanted because we both do not want to be stuck here for 4 more years. I HAVE to find a job back home in California. Steven needs to go to school and focus on school and I'll focus on bills and work. My success, or lack there of, finding a job in Missouri was devasting to my self-worth. I'm nervous that I will have the same outcome in California, although there will be hundreds of other options because Sacramento has a population of over a million people rather than the town of Warrensburg, MO at 16,000. That's a good probablility of finiding a job right? I pray and ask God to yes, put us where we need to be, but please not Missouri, and to finally let life be easy for a bit.
Steven has spent 5 years here. It's absolutely MISERABLE here. The weather, the seclusion, the distance, and at times the people. Steven and I dated 2 1/2 years apart. I guess we've always had the hard way of going about things. Of course, I'm happy I'm finally here with him, but a huge part of me is missing and I think Steven can say the same. We need and I honestly feel that we deserve somewhere better than Missouri. I've worked so hard and so has Steven. It's hard when others don't travel a difficult path, and they have everything so easily. We just want a break. Throw us a bone!!!!! I kind of ask any of my family or friends or whomever reads my blog, to just not ask about the future with us. When we know, we will tell you. It's almost like the baby question. I get asked SOOOO often, it just overwhelms me and I am definitely overwhelmed by the next 5 months and where my life with my husband will take us. Too many possibilities and too many people to tell and rehash feelings. Love you all and all we want is to be close to our family and friends. Pray for us.
We've been really excited about Steven's parents coming out at the end of the month. They will be here from the 21st until the 28th. Then my mom will be here from November 5th until the 11th. Busy busy busy! I get to take time off work for both which is much needed.
In previous blogs posted, Novermber 18th is the day we put in for a different base. Steven and I were very excited when we first found out, and now it the stress of everything is kind of sinking in. We don't want our families to get their hopes up that we MIGHT be coming back to California and we don't want to get our hopes up, which I know I've been feeling myself. In my perfect world, we would be transfered to Beale or Travis. I would be able to go to graduate school and we would be able to buy a house. I feel a huge responsibility for myself if we did not get any bases that we wanted because we both do not want to be stuck here for 4 more years. I HAVE to find a job back home in California. Steven needs to go to school and focus on school and I'll focus on bills and work. My success, or lack there of, finding a job in Missouri was devasting to my self-worth. I'm nervous that I will have the same outcome in California, although there will be hundreds of other options because Sacramento has a population of over a million people rather than the town of Warrensburg, MO at 16,000. That's a good probablility of finiding a job right? I pray and ask God to yes, put us where we need to be, but please not Missouri, and to finally let life be easy for a bit.
Steven has spent 5 years here. It's absolutely MISERABLE here. The weather, the seclusion, the distance, and at times the people. Steven and I dated 2 1/2 years apart. I guess we've always had the hard way of going about things. Of course, I'm happy I'm finally here with him, but a huge part of me is missing and I think Steven can say the same. We need and I honestly feel that we deserve somewhere better than Missouri. I've worked so hard and so has Steven. It's hard when others don't travel a difficult path, and they have everything so easily. We just want a break. Throw us a bone!!!!! I kind of ask any of my family or friends or whomever reads my blog, to just not ask about the future with us. When we know, we will tell you. It's almost like the baby question. I get asked SOOOO often, it just overwhelms me and I am definitely overwhelmed by the next 5 months and where my life with my husband will take us. Too many possibilities and too many people to tell and rehash feelings. Love you all and all we want is to be close to our family and friends. Pray for us.
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